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Treća sreća – Ljubica | Third happiness Ljubica

Prošlo je tek 4 ipo meseca od kako sam na svet donela jednu malenu devojčicu-Ljubicu. Taj zadnji, deveti mesec je bio jako isrpljujuć za mene, pogotovo što je bio u najtoplijem mesecu u godini-avgust. Imala sam česte kontrole jer sam prešla termin. Sećam se da je bio petak i da mi je doktor rekao da je situacija još uvek nepromenjena i da dođem u ponedeljak opet. Otvorena svega jedan ipo prst, bez kontrakcija ili bilo čega. Ceo mesec sam imala lažne kontrakcije ali nikako one prave,zato je doktor i čekao. Torba je naravno bila spremna kao i uvek još u 8 mesecu za svaki slučaj. Ali mojoj devojčici se nije žurilo. Došao je i ponedeljak. Otišla sa na zakazanu kontrolu, 3 dana preko termina. Idalje bez kontrakcija. Na ctgu se nisu nazirale kontrakcije, doktor mi je uradio pregled i rekao da sam otvorena 3 prsta i da ostajem. Oomislih u sebi koje olakšanje, jedva čekam da je upoznam i zagrlim. Inače bilo je jutro, i nenormalna gužva. Oko mene hiljadu ljudi, trudnica, haos živi. Upiše me sestra, i od silne gužve, svuda ispiše pogrešno ime, negde pomeša datume i morasmo opet sve ispočetka. U međuvremenu, pošaljem ja muža kući za stvari. Doneo on meni stvari, ja njemu moje da nosi kući, i sva srećna se vratim unutra jer ću kako kaže moj doktor danas biti „Gotova“. Konačno stiže moja malena Ljubičica. Odma su me kao trećerotku smestili u pripremnu sobu, bila sam sama. Počela sam da šetam ne bi li pokrenula bolove. U jednom momentu mi je stigla poruka od muža:

„Znaš li koji je danas dan?“

„Znam.“ rekla sam mu „Na današnji dan pre 10 godina smo počeli da se zabavljamo, stiže nam poklon za godišnjicu zabavljanja danas.“

Babica me je svaki čas zezala:

„Kako ćeš ti ženo da se porodiš kad nemaš bolove?“

Ja sam joj smejući se odgovarala, ma doćiće i oni. Šetala sam po porodilištu satima i satima. Bolovi su postepeno počeli da se pojavljuju. Prvo su bili, slabi, dosadnjikavi, pa su počeli sa se pojačavaju. Doktor je dolazio s vremena na vreme da me pregleda da vidi da li se situacija menja. Možda je čak i od tolikih pregleda, krenulo da se otvara i da se pojačavaju bolovi, što bi doktor rekao, ovo je ručno otvaranje-da pomognemo. Sve je to trajalo od 7 ujutru, to izazivanje bolova i otvaranja do 14h. Oko 14h kreću kontrakcije, neprestano da se nižu, jedna za drugom. Babica mi priključuje CTG i ne može da nađe otkucaje srca. Toliko se uplašila da je htela da me odma odvede u salu. Međutim, meni je stomak bio u konstantnom grču pa nije ctg mogao da detektuje oktucaje sve dok se stomak ne opusti malo. Počinju naponi. Babica ulazi u sobu, kaže:

„Vreme je idemo.“

Uzima me pod ruku i vodi u salu. Gledam u sat, 14:40. Muž je u čekaoni i sa mojim bratom, čekaju bebu, lepe vesti, babica ih naravno, obaveštava o svemu. Penjem se na sto i ležem. Počinje porođaj i u tom momentu mi puca vodenjak, na porođajnom stolu. Čujem babicu kako viče,stani ,evo je glava. Beba je krenula zajedno sa vodenjakom.

Iz dva napona rodila se Ljubica, tačno u 14:50, 16.08.2019. Teška 4350gr i dugačka 56cm. Moja treća sreća, treća ljubav, treća radost.




It’s only been four and a half months since I brought a little girl, Ljubica, into the world.  That last, ninth month was very painful for me, especially since it was the hottest month of the year-August.  I had frequent controls because I had passed the term.  I remember it was Friday and the doctor told me the situation was still the same and that I would come on Monday again.  Only one and a half fingers open, without contractions or anything.  For the whole month I had false contractions but no real contractions, that’s why the doctor waited.  The bag was of course ready as always at 8 months just in case.  But my girl was in no hurry.  Monday came.  Gone with scheduled appointment 3 days later.  Still without contractions.  No contractions were visible on the ctg, the doctor gave me an examination and said that I was open 3 fingers and that I was staying.  I thought of myself as a relief, I can’t wait to meet her and give her a hug.  Otherwise it was morning, and an abnormal crowd.  A thousand people around me, pregnant women, chaos lives on.  My midwife enrolled me, and out of the crowd, she wrote the wrong name everywhere, mixed dates somewhere, and had to start all over again.  In the meantime, I’m sending my husband home for stuff.  He brought the things to me, I have him to carry home, and I am happy to go back inside because, as my doctor says today, I will be done.  My little Ljubica finally arrives.  Immediately they put me in the preparation room as a third, I was alone.  I started walking to start the pain.  At one point a message came from my husband:

„Do you know what day it is?“

„I know.“  I told him „Today we started dating 10 years ago. We’re getting a gift for our anniversary party today.“

My midwife used to tease me:

„How are you going to give when you have no pain?“

I was laughing at her, and they would come.  I walked around the maternity ward for hours and hours.  The pains gradually began to appear.  First, they were weak, boring, so they started to get stronger.  The doctor came from time to time to see me to see if the situation was changing.  Maybe even from so many examinations, it has started to open and intensify the pain, which the doctor would say is a manual opening – to help.  It all lasted from 7am, causing pain and opening until 2pm.  Around 2pm, the contractions began to decrease, one after the other.  My midwife hooks up with CTG and can’t find her heart rate.  She was so scared that she wanted to take me to the gym right away.  However, my stomach was in constant spasm, so ctg could not detect octaves until my stomach relaxed a bit.  Voltages start.  The midwife enters the room, says:

„It’s time to go.“

He takes me by the hand and leads me into the hall.  I’m looking at the clock, 2:40 pm.  The husband is in the waiting room and with my brother, they are waiting for the baby, the good news, the midwife, of course, informs them of everything.  I climb the table and lie down.  The birth begins, and at that moment my aquifer shoots, on the birth table.  I hear the midwife yell, stop, here’s the head.  The baby moved along with the Aquarius.

Ljubica was born from two pushes, exactly at 14:50, 16.08.2019.  Weight 4350gr and 56cm long.  My third happiness, third love, third joy
LJUBICA BUBICA 😍
LJUBICA LITTLE BUG 😍