Verujem da sve vas zanima moja treća trudnoća, koja se završila hitnim carskim rezom, pa za sve koje žele da pročitaju nešto o tome nalazi se u ovom textu.
Dolazak sa mora 2017god je trenutak kada smo saznali da sam u drugom stanju, moram priznati da je kuma i pre mene znala da sam trudna jer je primetila stomače, obzirom da je moja teorija bila da je ‘kašnjenje’ ciklusa samo nagla promena klime.
Termin mi je bio polovina Maja.
Cela moja trudnoća je protekla u jednom savršenom redu, do trenutka kada sam jednog jutra prokrvarila. Odmah smo otisli u bolnicu, gde je na pregledu sve bilo ok, ali zbog tog krvarenja su morali da me zadrže. Savetovali su mi strogo mirovanje obzirom da sam tek bila 31 nedelja, mislili da je posledica tog krvarenja podizanje srednjeg deteta i da ce se kroz par dana sve stabilizovati.
Četvrti dan, moje stanje biva sve gore, gde je krvarenje toliko bilo obilno kao da si pustio česmu(inače sam sva 4 dana u bolnici bila bez ikakve terapije).
Tog dana sam se požalila Dr.Danici koja je u tom trenutku bila dežurna, koja je radjenjem Uz ustanovila da nema kapi plodove vode, i da je verovatno neki problem sa posteljicom.
Na Ctg-u su tog dana otkucaji toliko padali da su tonovi jedva bili vidljivi.
Bilo je svima jasno da dete iz nekog razloga u meni pati.
Sećam se kao da je juče bilo kada mi je saopštila:
„Ovo danas moramo da rešavamo, hitan carski rez!“
Molila sam se samo da dete preživi, nisam se plašila ničega, sem što nisam želela da me totalno opijaju.
U 32 nedelji mi je uradjen hitan carski rez, i dobila sam devojčicu Niku 2kg.
Imala je super kilažu, obzirom da je dosta pre rodjena, ali nije mogla samostalno na diše.
Odmah je poslata u Kragujevac na Institut za neonatoligiju.
I believe that you are all interested in my third pregnancy, which ended in an emergency caesarean section, so for anyone who wants to read about it, see this article.
Coming from the sea in 2017 is the moment when we learned that I was in a different state, I have to admit that my godfather knew before I was pregnant because she noticed stomachs, since my theory was that the ‘delay’ of the cycle was just a sudden change in climate.
My term was half of May.
My entire pregnancy was in perfect order, by the time I bled one morning. We immediately went to the hospital, where everything was ok for examination, but because of that bleeding they had to keep me. They advised me to be strictly stationary since I was only 31 weeks old, thinking that the result of this bleeding was raising my middle child and that in a few days everything would stabilize.
On the fourth day, my condition was getting worse, where the bleeding was as profuse as if you had let the faucet go (otherwise I was in the hospital for 4 days without any therapy).
That day, I complained to Dr. Danica, who was on duty at the time, who found that there were no drops of fruit water, and that there was probably a problem with the placenta.
On Ctg the beats dropped so much that day that the tones were barely visible.
It was clear to everyone that for some reason the child was suffering in me.
I remember it as yesterday when she announced to me:
„We need to address this today, emergency caesarean section!“
I was praying only for the child to survive, I was not afraid of anything except that I did not want them completely intoxicated.
At 32 weeks, I had an emergency caesarean section, and I got a girl Nika 2kg.
She had a super weight, since she was born long ago, but she couldn’t breathe on her own.
She was immediately sent to Kragujevac at the Institute for Neonatology.
Par dana je bila u inkubatoru na aparatima i kiseoniku, primila inekcije za razvijanje pluća, nakon toga je počela i samostalno da diše. Od samog početka se borila kao Lav, ona je najjača devojčica koju sam ja mogla da rodim, i mnogo sam ponosna na nju a i na sebe, jer da mi nije uradjen carski taj dan
Ja ujutru ne bi preživela, a za nju je bilo 50-50%.
Nikada neću da zaboravim kada sam puštena iz bolnice, sa tek stavljenim koncima i ogromnim bolovima, putovala svakog dana po sat vremena do Kragujevca, trčala uz stepenice Instituta kako bi videla moje dete bar na 5 min, jer je roditeljima dece u takvim okolnostima toliko bilo dozvoljeno.
Ne želim čak tih slika više ni da se sećam.
Toliko je bila mala, sitna, bespomoćna , sama, bez mene, svoje majke. Svaki put me je stezalo u grudima kada sam se vraćala kući bez nje.
Najgore mi je bilo u porodilištu kada su sve majke uzimale decu u svoje ruke, a ja sam to sve morala da gledam-ja nisam imala koga.
Ali sam bila jaka.
Jaka koliko i ona.
Nakon mesec dana Nika je izašla sa Instituta sa 2kg, toliko je imala i na rodjenju, ali je nekim danima kalirala, jer joj je dosta vremena trebalo da nauči sama da jede na flašicu, pa je hranjenja preko sonde.
For a couple of days she was in the incubator on appliances and oxygen, received injections to develop her lungs, after which she began to breathe on her own. From the very beginning, she fought like a Lion, she is the strongest girl I could have given birth to, and I am very proud of her and myself, because I was not done by Imperial that day
I would not survive in the morning, and for her it was 50-50%.
I will never forget when I was released from the hospital, with only threads put in and huge pains, I traveled daily for an hour to Kragujevac, ran up the steps of the Institute to see my child for at least 5 minutes, because there were so many parents of children in such circumstances allowed.
I don’t even want to remember those pictures anymore.
She was so small, petty, helpless, alone, without me, her mother. Each time I was clenched in my chest when I returned home without her.
The worst part was in the maternity ward when all the mothers were taking their children into their own hands, and I had to watch it all – I had no one.
But I was strong.
Strong as she is.
After a month Nika came out of the Institute with 2kg, she had so much at birth, but on some days she calibrated because it took her a long time to learn to eat on the bottle herself, so she fed through the probe.
Zahvalna sam mojoj doktorki Dani doživotno što nam je spasila život i što danas imam priliku da moju Niku gledam kako se smeje, diše, kako me voli i govori mi mama.
Više se ne odvajamo bebo. ❤️
PS. U Martu punimo 2 godine❤️
Autor: mama Tatjana Bajić
Tanjica je mama tri prelepe devojčice, takodje I mama-blogerka. Posetite njen profil na Instagramu:I am grateful to my Doctor Dani for a lifetime that she saved our lives and that today I have the opportunity to watch my Nika laugh, breathe, love me and tell me Mom.
We are no longer separating baby. ❤️
PS. We are 2 years old in March❤️
Author: Mom Tatjana Bajic
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