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Vaspitanje dvogodišnjaka | Raising a two year old

Proces vaspitanja nije nimalo lak, pogotovu u današnje vreme kada je sve nekako drugačije nego nekada. Ja konstantno razmišljam, vagam, preispitujem se i ne kažem da sve radim kako treba, grešim naravno kao i svi, ali se trudim da što bolje vaspitam dete. Sa dve godine oni su tako mali, ne razumeju baš najbolje, a opet sa druge strane sve znaju. Za seve mogu reći da sam stroga, ne previše, ali red mora da se zna. Dok je David bio manji, nekako je to išlo lakše, sada sa dve godine već ispipava granice, pokušava da izmanipuliše, da plakanjem istera po svome. Ja se trudim da ostanem dosledna, dosta pričam sa njim šta nije lepo, šta se sme, a šta ne. Potrebno je dosta strpljenja… Ne kažem, dobije i po guzi, ali mi se čini da najbolje deluje kazna, u smislu da ga posaljem u sobu dok se ne smiri i zaista me posluša. Radoznao je, živahan, hoće sve da pipne, proba, ali to je normalno dete je. Najgore je kada hoće da ispituje i dira neke opasne stvari, npr kablove i utičnice i ostale stvari koje mogu da izazovu opasnost. Ja se trudim da mu maksimalno ispunim vreme, da budemo aktivni, da uživa napolju, da uživa u blatu, ne smeta mi što se prlja, ali sa druge strane izričita sam u tome da red mora da se zna, ne tolerišem bezobrazno ponašanje. Kada uradi nešto dobro uvek ga pohvalim i nagradim, npr kada pokupi svoje igračke, jer smatram da je to njegov zadatak i prosto treba da ima naviku da sredi za sobom. Mislim da ga na taj način motivišem da bude još bolji. Ono što je bitno je ne pasti pod dečje fore, pa da na kraju oni vama manipulišu, biti dosledan i umeren.


The process of upbringing is not at all easy, especially nowadays when everything is somehow different than it used to be. I am constantly thinking, weighing, questioning myself and not saying that I am doing everything right, I am wrong, of course, like everyone else, but I try to raise a child as well as possible. At the age of two, they are so small, they don’t understand very well, and yet on the other hand, they know everything. I can say that I am strict, not too much, but the order must be known. When David was younger, somehow it went easier, now at the age of two he is already feeling the boundaries, trying to manipulate, to drive his way by crying. I try to stay consistent, I talk to him a lot about what is not nice, what we are laughing at and what we are not. It takes a lot of patience … I’m not saying he gets hit in the ass, but it seems to me that punishment works best, in the sense that I send him to the room until he calms down and really listens to me. He is curious, lively, he wants to touch everything, he tries, but he is a normal child. The worst is when he wants to examine and touch some dangerous things, such as cables and sockets and other things that can cause danger. I try to fill his time as much as possible, to be active, to enjoy outside, to enjoy the mud, I don’t mind getting dirty, but on the other hand I am explicit that order must be known, I do not tolerate rude behavior. When he does something good, I always praise and reward him, for example, when he picks up his toys, because I think that is his task and he just needs to have the habit of taking care of himself. I think that’s how I motivate him to be even better. What is important is not to fall under the children’s tricks, so that in the end they manipulate you, to be consistent and moderate

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