Deca

Kada su deca spremna za neku aktivnost? | When children are ready for an activity?

Dok je Aleksa bio mali razmišljali smo čime bi mogao da se zanima preko raspusta, koji bi ga sport zanimalo. Pustili smo ga da vidimo da li će i sam pokazati da ga zanima neki sport.

Pošto živimo u malom mestu nije baš imao i nekog izbora a voziti ga u drugi grad zbog sporta nije baš bilo u planu jer su svi radili a Anđela je bila mala pa nisam mogla da ga ja vozim…

Tako da smo odlučili da ga vodimo da gledaa dok druga deca treniraju fudbal pa ako želi da ga upišemo. Tada je ima 4 godine. Nije ga baš zanimalo. Tako da smo te godine odustali od toga.

Već sledeće godine počeo je da se zanima za fudbal. Saopštio nam je da želi da krene da trenira, pošto su i neki njegovi drugari trenirali. Upisali smo ga i u početku nije želeo da bude tamo sam nego da neko od nas ostane da ga gleda dok trenira.

Onda smo se dogovorili da je ipak bolje da ostane tamo sa drugarima i trenerom da trenira bez da ga mi gledamo. I to je super funkcionisalo. Dok muž nije odlučio jedan dan da ostane da ga gleda.

Kada je došao kući sa Aleksom prvo što mi je rekao bilo je kako se nikada slađe nije ismejao kao tog dana. Kaže da on uopšte ni ne trenira tamo nego se samo istrči lepo i da se on u stvari igra tamo… Ali ostavili smo ga da trenira eto bar da ima gde da se istrči, jer oni su prepuni energije…

Trenirao je sve dok ja nisam ostala treći put trudna, posle nisam mogla da ga vozim a i krenuo je u prvi razred i prosto se previše obaveza nakupilo i nismo uspevali da se uskladimo da ga vodimo…

Ali bitno je da on i dalje ima volju i želju pa se nadamo da će se ovog leta ponovo aktivirati po pitanju toga. Jer, po mom mišljenju, jako je bitno da deca imaju neku ‚‚ obavezu ‚‚ koja je samo njihova. Na taj način stiču osećaj odgovornosti a i samopouzdanje. Postaju komunikativniji i otvoreniji prema svemu. Bar je kod nas to bio slučaj.


When Alexa was little, we thought about what he could be interested in during the holidays, what sport he would be interested in.  We let him see if he would show that he was interested in any sport.

Since we live in a small town, he didn’t really have any choice and it wasn’t really planned to drive him to another city because of sports because everyone was working and Anđela was small so I couldn’t drive her …

So we decided to take him to watch while the other kids practice football so if he wants to enroll him.  She is 4 years old then.  He wasn’t really interested.  So we gave up on that that year.

The following year, he became interested in football.  He told us that he wanted to start training, since some of his friends also trained.  We enrolled him and at first he didn’t want to be there alone but for one of us to stay to watch him while he trained.

Then we agreed that it is still better to stay there with friends and the coach to train without us watching him.  And it worked great.  Until the husband decided one day to stay to watch him.

When he came home with Alex the first thing he told me was how he never laughed sweeter than that day.  He says that he doesn’t train there at all, he just runs nicely and that he actually plays there … But we left him to train, at least he has a place to run, because they are full of energy …

He trained until I got pregnant for the third time, then I couldn’t drive him and he started in the first grade and just too many obligations accumulated and we didn’t manage to agree to lead him …

But it is important that he still has the will and desire, so we hope that he will be active again this summer.  Because, in my opinion, it is very important that children have an „obligation“ that is only theirs.  In that way, they gain a sense of responsibility and self-confidence.  They become more communicative and open to everything.  At least that was the case with us.

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