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Odvikavanje od cucle | Weaning from the pacifier

Cucla-taj mač sa dve oštrice… Nekada pomislite kako biste bez nje, ona vam je spas, a nekada pomislite da je bolje da je niste nikada ni dale detetu. Ja sam se plašila odvikavanja kao i odvikavanja od sisanja,mada je on cuclu koristio samo za uspavljivanje,ostatak dana je stajala na visokoj polici. Bojala sam se bez razloga, opet kao i za sisanje. Imala sam u planu već sa godinu i po da ga odviknem, ali počeli smo sa skidanjem pelena, pa je krenuo u vrtić i nisam želela toliko promena odjednom, mislim da bi to bilo previše za njega. Pričala sam sa kumom i ona je odvikla svog sina od cucle kad je počeo stalno da je traži, rekla mi je da kad počne sam da je traži to je znak da treba da se ukine. David je tih dana zaista znao kad je vidi da je traži, obično kad se probudi pa sam se malo zabrinula, ipak tešilo me je to što to nije bilo prečesto i nije je tražio kada je ne vidi, nije histerisao. Još uvek ništa nisam preduzimala.Krenuo je u vrtić, spakovala sam cucu u ranac, na početku je malo koristio za spavanje, a onda mi je vaspitačica jedan dan rekla: ,,Mi njemu više ne dajemo cucu, on zaspi bez nje bez problema“. Ja sam mu uveče još uvek davala cucu, iako ne znam zašto. Jednom kada je bio bolestan i kada mu je bio zapušen nosić, par puta sam mu izvadila cucu kako bi lakše disao i on se nije bunio, zaspao bi bez nje. Malo nakon toga, odlučila sam da je izbacimo, jer ako u vrtiću zaspi bez nje, nije se bunio kada sam mu uzimala kada je bio bolestan, zašto je ne bismo skroz izbacili. I eto, tako smo se odvikli od cucle…Nekako spontano, bez plana, bez muke, bez njegovog negodovanja, kao da je nije ni koristio nikada. Nije nužno da će svako odvikavanje biti komplikovano i teško, sve to zavisi od deteta do deteta.


Pacifier-that double-edged sword … Sometimes you think how you would do without it, it is your salvation, and sometimes you think that it is better that you never gave it to a child. I was afraid of weaning as well as weaning from sucking, although he used the pacifier only for falling asleep, the rest of the day it stood on a high shelf. I was afraid for no reason, again as for sucking. I had planned to wean him off for a year and a half, but we started removing the diaper, so he went to kindergarten and I didn’t want so many changes at once, I think that would be too much for him. I talked to the godfather and she weaned her son from the pacifier when he started looking for her all the time, she told me that when he starts looking for her himself, it is a sign that he should stop. David really knew in those days when he saw her looking for her, usually when he woke up so I was a little worried, yet I was comforted that it wasn’t too often and he didn’t look for her when he didn’t see her, he didn’t get hysterical. I still haven’t done anything. He went to kindergarten, I packed my baby in a backpack, at first he used it a little for sleeping, and then one day the teacher told me: „We don’t give him a baby anymore, he falls asleep without her without any problems.“ .I was still giving him a squat in the evening, although I don’t know why.Once he was sick and his nose was stuffy, I took his squat out a couple of times to make it easier to breathe and he didn’t complain, he would have fallen asleep without it. after that, I decided to kick her out, because if he fell asleep in kindergarten without her, he didn’t complain when I took him away when he was sick, why wouldn’t we kick her out completely, and so we got used to the pacifier … Somehow spontaneously , without a plan, without pain, without his resentment, as if he had never used it.It is not necessary that every weaning will be complicated and difficult, it all depends on the child to the child.

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