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Koliko se promeni život nakon što stigne beba? | How much life changes after the baby arrives?

Promeni se mnogo, baš mnogo, da se ne lažemo. Ali, ne žalim se… Život postaje bogatiji, ispunjeniji, dobija smisao, ljubav se udvostruči… Naravno, naidju trenuci kada bismo da nam se vrate bar dva dana od pre, da možemo da spavamo do kada hoćemo, da se organizujemo samo prema sebi, da ne razmišljamo previše. Svima naidju takvi trenuci kada smo premoreni, kada zagužvamo sa obavezama. Šta se to promeni? Dete je u centru pažnje, svi planovi se prilagodjavaju detetu. Neretko se deca i do dve godine bude noću,a ujutru ustaju sa prvim petlovima. Ne ide se više na putovanja dok se o svemu dobro ne promisli. Ranije si kad god si želeo mogao sesti i popiti kafu negde u gradu, sada to više nije tako, jer se šetnja svodi na jurcanje za decom i mora se napraviti čitav plan ako želiš negde da sedneš sa detetom. Više se brine, mnogo više. Mnogo se manje vremena ima. Mnogo se manje druži.Noćne izlaske zamenjuje pegla i brdo veša. Ali, sa druge strane, mnogo se više voli, mnogo se više raduje, mnogo nam je lepša atmosfera u kući, dok ne postaneš roditelj ne možeš to da osetiš. I, iako nekada nije lako, ipak i da mogu ništa ja tu ne bih menjala i sve bih isto izabrala. Ništa nema lepše nego kada te zagrle te ručice i poljube ta nežna bića.


Change a lot, just a lot, let’s not lie. But, I’m not complaining … Life becomes richer, more fulfilled, it gets meaning, love doubles … Of course, there are times when we want to get back at least two days before, to be able to sleep as long as we want, to organize just to ourselves, not to think too much. There are such moments for everyone when we are overworked, when we are stuck with obligations. What has changed? The child is in the center of attention, all plans are adjusted to the child. It is not uncommon for children up to the age of two to wake up at night, and get up in the morning with the first roosters. You don’t go on trips anymore until you think about everything well. Earlier, whenever you wanted, you could sit down and drink coffee somewhere in the city, now that is no longer the case, because walking is reduced to running after children and a whole plan must be made if you want to sit somewhere with a child. The more he worries, the more. There is much less time. He hangs out much less. Night outs are replaced by irons and a lot of laundry. But, on the other hand, we love each other much more, we rejoice much more, we have a much nicer atmosphere in the house, until you become a parent you can’t feel it. And, although sometimes it is not easy, even if I could do nothing, I would not change it and I would choose everything the same. There is nothing more beautiful than when those arms embrace you and kiss those gentle beings.

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