Deca

Reakcije beba na nepoznate ljude | Baby’s reaction on unknown people

Oh, da, svima nam je poznata ona situacija kada neko nepoznat priđe bebi i želi da se poigra, a beba brizne u plač. Mi majke se onda osetimo po malo neprijatno, pa počnemo da objašnjavamo, ali zaista za tim nema potrebe. Ni nama odraslima ne prijaju svi ljudi, zašto bebi moraju svi da odgovaraju, da joj prija da je svako pipne, štipne, poljubi…Ta mala bića prosto osete energije ljudi. David je oduvek hteo kod svakoga, uopšte nisam imala taj problem da plače kad ga neko uzme, da traži mene, ne, naprotiv… Baš sam bila srećna zbog toga što nije pekmeza i nije mrgud, samo se smejao. Međutim, iako su bile retke, imali smo par situacija kada je imao nekih 8, 9 meseci možda, da se zaplakao pri susretu sa određenim ljudima, i to je uglavnom isto reagovao i pri ponovnom susretu. Nisam pridavala tome značaja, niti se izvinjavala, prosto možda detetu nije dan, možda je premoreno, a možda mu se prosto ne sviđaš i to je skroz ok. Nema razloga da vam bude neprijatno, to je samo malo dete, koje ne ume da iskaže svoje emocije i ono što oseća.


Oh, yes, we are all familiar with the situation when a stranger approaches the baby and wants to play, and the baby bursts into tears.  We mothers then feel a little uncomfortable, so we start explaining, but there is really no need for that.  We adults don’t like all people either, because babies have to be answered by everyone, she likes everyone to touch, pinch, kiss her … Those little beings just feel the energy of people.  David always wanted to be with everyone, I didn’t have that problem crying at all when someone took him, looking for me, no, on the contrary … I was really happy because it’s not jam and it’s not frowning, he just laughed.  However, although they were rare, we had a couple of situations when he was about 8, 9 months old, that he cried when he met certain people, and he mostly reacted the same way when he met again.  I didn’t attach importance to that, nor did I apologize, it’s just that maybe the child wasn’t given a date, maybe he’s tired, and maybe he just doesn’t like you and that’s totally ok.  There is no reason for you to be uncomfortable, it is just a small child, who does not know how to express his emotions and what he feels.

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