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Koliko se menja prijateljstvo kada dobijete dete? | How much does friendship change when you have a child?

Smatram da prava prijateljstva ništa ne može promeniti, ništa ne može poremetiti, možemo se ređe viđati, ali to ništa ne menja, pravi prijatelji su uvek tu za vas. Istina je da takvih osoba nema puno, ali nema ni puno školjki sa biserom zar ne? A, šta je pravi prijatelj nego biser? Ja bih izdvojila moju kumu, kao mog velikog prijatelja, moju podršku, osobu koja je tu uvek, koja i traži, ali i daje savet kada je potrebno. I znate šta? Ništa se nije promenilo od kad sam dobila dete. Ljubav se samo uvećala, jer pored mene ona sada voli i moje dete, a ja nju samim tim još više. Ona nema dete, možda je i ne zanimaju uvek priče o dojenju, upišanim pelenama, nicanju zubića, ali nikada mi to nije rekla već uvek sluša jer zna da je to ono što se meni trenutno dešava, ono što me okupira. Tako i ja nju uvek pitam i slušam kada mi priča o poslu, izlascima iako ja trenutno nisam u tim vodama. Družimo se od prvog razreda osnovne škole, znači evo već 20 godina 😊 Sada nismo samo drugarice, već i kume! Zajedno se radujemo uspesima, ali i delimo muke. Iako se ne viđamo često, jer je ona sada u Beogradu, to se toliko i ne oseća, jer se čujemo telefonom bar jednom dnevno. Kada dođe kući, uvek dođe i kod nas. David je voli i uvek se raduje kada ona dođe, a kada ode on se hvali šta ga je kuma naučila i šta mu je kupila 😊 Ona razume i kada sam umorna i kada ne stignem da joj se javim i ne zamera što nemam vremena da uvek odem i ka kod nje ili da šetamo gradom, to je nebitno, bitno je da smo se videle i popile kafu. Takav prijatelj se retko nalazi i treba ga čuvati za ceo život!


I find that true friendship can change nothing, it can not disturb anything, we can see each other less often, but it does not change anything, real friends are always there for you. It is true that there are not many such persons, but there are not many shells with pearls, are there? And what is a true friend but a pearl? I would single out my godmother, as my great friend, my support, a person who is always there, who asks for, but also gives advice when needed. And you know what? Nothing has changed since I got a kid. Love only increased, because besides me, she now loves my child, and I love her even more. She does not have a child, she may not always be interested in stories about breastfeeding, diapers, sprouting teeth, but she never told me but always listens because she knows that what is happening to me right now is what is occupying me. That’s how I always ask her and listen to her when she tells me about work, going out, even though I’m not in those waters at the moment. We have been friends since the first grade of primary school, so for 20 years now 😊 Now we are not only friends, but also godparents! We rejoice in successes together, but we also share the torments. Although we don’t see each other often, because she is in Belgrade now, she doesn’t feel that much, because we hear each other on the phone at least once a day. When he comes home, he always comes to us. David loves her and always rejoices when she comes, and when he leaves he brags about what his godmother taught him and what she bought him 😊 She understands when I’m tired and when I don’t get to call her and she doesn’t mind that I don’t always have time to I go to her house or walk around the city, it is not important, it is important that we met and had coffee. Such a friend is rarely found and should be kept for life!

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