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Pravo vreme za bebu? | Right time for a baby?

Postoji li pravo vreme za decu?
Postoje li prave godine za decu?
Postoje li?

Ne postoje!

Nije bitno sta kaze drustvo, ljudo ce uvek iznositi svoje misljenje o vama nebitno sta vi uradili.
Ja smatram da ne postoji starosna granica za radjanje dece.
Ali takodje smatram da ne bi trebalo radjati pre 20te godine, ali isto tako ne osudjem zene koje su roditw pre toga.
Ko sam ja da nekog osudjujem?
Nemam prava, a nemate ni vi!

Nije bitno da li ce neko biti spreman ili pozeleti da se ostvari u ulozi roditelja sa 25, 35, 45 ili 55.
Mozda se ti isti ljudi godinama bore za potomstvo, mozda postoji neki problem koji je ne resiv ili je resiv ali treba vremena.

Nemojte ljudi postavljati pitanja poput:
Kad ce beba?
Jos nisi trudna?
Kad ces ako ne sad?

Ja sam dobijala takva pitanja, to povredjuje.
Ja sam imala problema sa zacecem, imala sam policisticne jajnike imam ih I sad.
Povredjivale su me osobe meni bliske, nisu ni znale o cemu se radi. A sada te iste osobe na neki nacin osudjuju mene kao majku. Zasto?
Zato sto je ljudima glavni posao zabadati nos tamo gde ne treba.

Necu jos vise duziti, a imam puno toga da kazem.

Recicu samo:

Ne postoji pravo vreme, nikad nisi dovoljno spreman, to je velika uloga I svi mi imamo svoju premijeru!


Is there a right time for children?
Are there the right years for children?
Are there any?

That don’t exist!

It doesn’t matter what society says, people will always express their opinion about you, no matter what you do.
I believe that there is no age limit for having children.
But I also think that you shouldn’t give birth before the age of 20, but I also don’t condemn women who gave birth before that.
Who am I to judge someone?
I have no rights, and neither do you!

It doesn’t matter if someone is ready or willing to fulfill the role of a parent at 25, 35, 45 or 55.
Maybe these same people have been fighting for a baby for years, maybe there is some problem that is not solvable or is solvable but it takes time.

Don’t ask people questions like:
When will you have a baby?
Why aren’t you pregnant yet?
When will you if not now?

I’ve been getting questions like that, it hurts.
I had problems conceiving, I had polycystic ovaries, I still have them.
I was hurt by people close to me, they didn’t even know what it was about. And now those same people are somehow condemning me as a mother. Why?
Because people’s main job is to stick their noses where they shouldn’t.

I won’t go on any longer, and I have a lot to say.

I will just say:

There is no right time, you are never ready enough, it is a big role and we all have our premiere!

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