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Oktobar- Podizanje svesti o spontanim pobačajima | October- Miscarriage awareness month

Danas je, nažalost, sve više mama doživelo da se pre vremena rastane sa svojim bebama. Ovo je bolna tema svih mama, ali posvetimo joj bar jedan tekst utehe za sve mame koje prolaze kroz to, jer je mesec oktobar posvecen podizanju svesti o spontanim pobačajima.

Kao neko ko je prošao kroz tu situaciju u 4.mesecu trudnoće, mogu samo da kažem da je osećaj vrlo slamajući. Trenutak kada odlazim na redovnu kontrolu i doktor mi saopštava da nema srčane radnje, zauvek će ostati urezan u mom sećanju. Bila sam i zatečena i uplašena i tužna i iskreno, nisam mogla ni da poverujem jer nisam osećala nikakve simptome, sem što sam se danima mislila zašto još uvek ne osećam pokrete bebe, ali pošto mi je to bila prva trudnoća mislila sam da je to i normalno, možda ću za koji dan osetiti. Dolazim na odeljenje, svi zapitkuju, a meni se plače. Posle neka 4 dana mi je odrađena kiretaža pod opštom anestezijom, jer je tako jedino moglo, i to je možda i olakšica jer bar ne osećaš taj fizički bol, dovoljan je psihički koji razara. Muče te pitanja zašto se to desilo, gde si pogrešila, tuga što nisi upoznala to maleno biće… Jako je bitno biti hrabar i okružen ljudima koji utiču pozitivno na tebe, koji ti ne dozvoljavaju da očajavaš. Vremenom to prevaziđeš… Ostaje trag, ostaje doza straha pri sledećoj trudnoći, ali bitno je to iskontrolisati i ne paničiti. Šaljem puno podrške i ljubavi za sve mame koje možda sada prolaze kroz tu situaciju.


Ja sam prebrodila i rodila posle godinu dana jednog zdravog dečaka, i vi ćete, samo polako i hrabro!


Today, unfortunately, more and more mothers have experienced parting with their babies prematurely. This is a painful topic for all moms, but let’s dedicate at least one text of consolation to all moms who go through it, because the month of October is dedicated to raising awareness about miscarriages. As someone who went through that situation in the 4th month of pregnancy, I can only say that the feeling is very overwhelming. The moment I go for a regular check-up and the doctor tells me that there is no heart attack, it will forever remain etched in my memory. I was both startled and scared and sad and honestly, I couldn’t believe it because I didn’t feel any symptoms, except that I thought for days why I still can’t feel the baby’s movements, but since it was my first pregnancy I thought it was normally, maybe I’ll feel it in a day. I come to the ward, everyone asks questions, and I cry. After about 4 days, I underwent curettage under general anesthesia, because that was the only way I could, and that may be a relief because at least you don’t feel that physical pain, it is enough to be mentally devastating. You are tormented by questions why it happened, where you went wrong, sadness that you did not meet that little creature … It is very important to be brave and surrounded by people who positively influence you, who do not allow you to despair. In time, you will overcome that …
There is a trace left, there is a dose of fear in the next pregnancy, but it is important to control it and not panic. I am sending a lot of support and love for all the mothers who may be going through this situation now.

I overcame and gave birth to a healthy boy after a year, and you will, just slowly and bravely!

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